Janel and Aaron’s wedding at The Upchurch in Cary was full of personal touches, joyful energy, and heartfelt moments that felt exactly like them. With an edgy-yet-sophisticated aesthetic and a focus on being fully present with the people they love, their Upchurch wedding was a true reflection of their relationship: emotional, stylish, and unforgettable.
The day began with a private first look on the front porch of the historic Upchurch home. Janel stepped out in her glam gown from Vow’d, radiating confidence and beauty. Aaron’s reaction was everything—a mix of joy, nerves, and overwhelming love. It was a quiet moment shared between just the two of them, but one that set the tone for the rest of the day.
From the beginning, Janel and Aaron told us they wanted their wedding photos to feel natural and relaxed. They weren’t interested in overly posed portraits or stiff formalities. They wanted moments that felt like them—candid, joyful, and full of life.
One of the most memorable features of the day was the ceremony layout. Rather than a traditional aisle, their guests were seated in a circular configuration surrounding the couple as they said “I do.” This unique setup created an intimate, inclusive atmosphere that brought everyone closer to the moment.
The Upchurch was the perfect venue for a layout like this. With its open grounds and versatile spaces, the team made it easy for Janel and Aaron to bring their non-traditional vision to life. The natural light, manicured lawn, and thoughtful planning created a ceremony space that felt welcoming and warm.
Janel and Aaron visited several venues, but The Upchurch quickly became the clear choice. Not only was the venue beautiful and thoughtfully designed, but it checked every box on their must-have list: everything in one location, wheelchair accessibility, and a staff that felt genuinely kind and supportive.
They described the property as a blank slate, which allowed them to truly make it their own. From their unique ceremony format to the details of their reception, every space at the Upchurch worked in harmony with their plans.
After the ceremony, Janel and Aaron made a point to join in on cocktail hour. Spending quality time with guests was a top priority for them, and it made the celebration feel intimate and welcoming. Instead of the traditional wedding cake, they opted for a spread of delicious pies, inviting guests to choose their favorite.
One of the most unique elements of the evening was their salsa-inspired dance party. Leading up to the wedding, they had invited guests to learn a few moves by sharing playlists and instructional videos on their wedding website. The result? A reception full of laughter, dancing, and unforgettable memories.
Janel and Aaron’s Upchurch wedding in Cary wasn’t just beautiful—it was intentional. Every detail, from the Pinterest-inspired color palette to the thoughtful guest experiences, reflected their story and style. They created an atmosphere that was equal parts sophisticated and laid-back, ensuring everyone felt included and celebrated.
If you’re dreaming of a day that goes beyond tradition and brings people together in a way that feels personal, the Upchurch in Apex might be your perfect match. It certainly was for Janel and Aaron.
As photographers, we love capturing weddings at venues like The Upchurch that offer flexibility, elegance, and an incredible team. If you’re planning an Upchurch wedding in Apex and looking for a photography experience that’s relaxed, emotional, and true to your story—we’d love to connect.
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